Anxious thoughts can be overwhelming when you’re exposed to too many stresses.
It’s a problem that even people without anxiety disorders experience. Sometimes life is just too big and overwhelming to easily process.
The way to counter the runaway effect of anxiety is to ground oneself.
Other mental illnesses and mental health issues also feature similar mechanisms. Mental illnesses like PTSD and Bipolar Disorder both have mechanisms that make a small, triggering circumstance into a much larger bout of unwellness. These usually have severe consequences if they’re left to run free.
Grounding can also be an effective way to curb cravings from addictions when they pop up.
Highly sensitive people who have strong emotional reactions can also benefit from grounding. Sometimes the mind just overreacts to something that we experience, and we need a moment to bring it under control.
Grounding is the process of bringing yourself back to the present moment by refocusing your mind on what is immediately accessible. It’s a practice that can be lumped in with mindfulness as a way to stay in the here and now.
One effective method for grounding yourself back to the present is the 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique. It utilizes your five senses to pull your attention back to the here and now, and away from whatever thoughts you are stuck on.
Here’s how the 5-4-3-2-1 Ground Technique works:
5 – Look for 5 things that you can see.
The idea is to look for the fine details in the things around you. Maybe it’s some knick-knacks sitting on a shelf, the intricacies of a photo or painting on the wall, or a random item sitting where it doesn’t belong. Take a few minutes to examine five objects around you with all of their finer details.
4 – Find 4 different touch sensations.
Touch sensations can be something like feeling sunshine on your skin, the fabric of the clothes you’re wearing, the moisture from a bottle of water, or really anything that has a different consistency you can touch. Don’t rush through the process. Spend a few minutes focusing on and feeling each sensation.
3 – Listen to 3 distinct sounds.
What can you hear? The birds singing? Traffic moving in the distance? The wind rustling through the trees? The sound of a lawnmower buzzing in the background? We are bombarded by sounds and stimuli that the brain just learns to filter out so that we can get on with our day. Turn that filter off and really listen. What sounds can you find and focus on?
2 – Consider 2 things you can smell.
Smells can be a bit more complicated, but there should be something around that you can focus on. If you’re at home where most smells are familiar, you can use something like a stick of deodorant, scented candle, or perfume to focus on. You may be able to smell rain in the air, smells of the season, or freshly mowed grass if you are outside.
1 – Find 1 thing to taste.
You may want to consider carrying some small bit of candy or breath mints to have something on-hand for you to taste. Focus on what you’re tasting and how it feels in your mouth. If you don’t have something accessible to taste, you can also think of something that you like to taste. Focus on thinking about the elements that make it taste so good and how it feels in your mouth.
And a significant pro-tip: an ice-cold drink is a fantastic tool for grounding. You have the cold drink that you hold in your hand (touch), condensation on the drink (touch, things you can see), the details of the cup of the drink (things you can see, touch), the drink itself (touch, things you can see, smell, taste), and ice cubes!
Sucking on an ice cube is an excellent final step because it provides many things for you to consider while you’re trying to ground yourself – the concentrated coldness (touch), the changing texture as it melts (touch), the taste (of the ice cube.) In fact, some people can just use an ice cube to ground themselves if they happen to have a cold drink at the time.
Repeat the exercise as needed.
Going through the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise should help to taper off the feelings that are trying to overwhelm you, but you might need to do it multiple times to defuse the trigger that you’re trying to control.
Don’t expect the outcome to be perfect. You may still have to navigate whatever trigger you’re dealing with, but this is a way to lessen its impact and make it smaller. Give the technique time to work for you.
Emotional and mental health triggers often work like a fire. Focusing on the negative emotions or triggering event, you’re basically throwing more gasoline on the fire.
But by pulling your attention away from the trigger for a little while, you starve the fire of oxygen so it can lessen in intensity.
It may still smolder. You may still feel a bit raw and sensitive for a while after, but at least it’s not burning everything to the ground. Sometimes that’s the best you can hope for.
Grounding techniques are exceptionally useful for navigating a number of mental health issues, like PTSD, Bipolar Disorder, anxiety, and depression, but they aren’t a replacement for treatment and assistance from a qualified mental health professional.
Take a few minutes to try to ground yourself when you feel like you’ve been triggered, and it may help you stay in control of your mind and deal with your present circumstances more effectively.
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